I'm new to this site and hope someone can help me with my question. I have a 4 year old and a 9 month old, both females, and since having the kitten fixed, the older cat does not wanna be held anymore. She also hisses and growls at me and the kitten all the time. Before the kitten got fixed they would play together all the time, or atleast what i thought was playing. When the mood strikes her, she can be good as gold and be on my lap. Why does she do this now, since the kitten has been fixed??