Okay my aunt from my mom's side is having a big thanksgiven there and she wants my sister and my dad and me there. And the trouble is she used to be married to my dad's brother and she doesn't want him there and my sister said she won't go if he's not there. And so now they are both pulling for me to go in my aunts case and in my sisters to not go if my uncle isn't there. We plan on having a small thanksgiven lunch here but then having supper there. And I just don't know what to do. I haven't seen any of my extended family in a long time and I miss them. When my mom left they helped my dad raise me. I understand my aunt not wanting her ex-husband there cause I wouldn't want my exhusband there and now what I can't understand is why my sister can't understand this.