I adopted and raised a 10-15 days old kitten whose mother was missing. While he was a baby, he preferred me above my husband. But that changed when he was about 6-7 months old. My husband was working all day, and when he came home, he would take a nap in his lap, and then they would play for about an hour, sometimes more. At that time, more or less I ceased to exist when my husband was home. He slept on his side of the bed, followed him around the house, asked him for food or play whenever he wanted. Lately, my husband hasn't played that much with him. My cat doesn't like toys anymore, and it's getting more and more difficult to keep him entertained, apart from chasing us. I've always played with him but for about 5 minutes at a time, whenever he followed me around the house when my husband wasn't home.
Suddenly, all that has changed. He's always with me, on me, on my side on the bed, on my lap... My husband acts as if it ok, but I think he must be hurting, like I was when Robin started ignoring me when my husband was around.
I don't think there has been any change in my husband's behaviour, or in mine. Can you think of any reason what he has changed so suddenly??
Suddenly, all that has changed. He's always with me, on me, on my side on the bed, on my lap... My husband acts as if it ok, but I think he must be hurting, like I was when Robin started ignoring me when my husband was around.
I don't think there has been any change in my husband's behaviour, or in mine. Can you think of any reason what he has changed so suddenly??