My MIL moved to Wisconsin (from Arizona) in December - we moved into her house and are renting it from her because she plans to move back here in 3-4 years. Well, she decided it would be more convenient to only take 1 of her cats with her. She gave her "adopted stray" to my SIL and left her male cat with us to take care of. The male cat, Marvin: wasn't neutered, no shots, inside/outside cat, 3-4 years old. I made her pay for the shots, testing, neutering before leaving the cat with us.
Well...4 months later my 3 cats still aren't accepting Marvin, he chases my rabbit that can't be caged (hes too spoiled), and doesn't get along with my husband or I (doesn't like us petting him and will try to bite if we do).
My MIL hasn't asked about him either. I know she probably cares about him, but the way I see it....she dumped her cat on us. She thought it would just be convenient to leave the cat with us then try to find him a new home.
I think this house is too small for 4 cats (only a 2 bedroom with an AZ room) and that's causing issues with my cats getting along. The other issue is that Marvin wants to go outside REALLY bad....he bolts to the doors when they open, sits in front of an open window for hours, and follows us all around the house because he thinks we are going to open the door to let him outside. I know the cat is really unhappy with us.
The problem is is that I refuse to let him go outside and then come back inside. I don't want fleas in my house because of my rabbits (and the expense to get rid of fleas!) and I also am afraid Marvin will get a disease from being outside with other cats and infect my kitties who are inside only.
I guess what I am asking is....would it be that bad if Marvin was an outside only kitty (he was practically that 4 months ago) or should we look into rehoming him to someone where he can be the only cat and go inside/outside? I just know he hates being inside and its probably torture to him....I can just feel his frustration/sadness.
We live in a non-busy neighborhood, never see any stray dogs...but around the block from us is a small Indian reservation where I know coyotes are. I don't think Marvin would venture that far, but who knows....he did survive outside for 2 years when my MIL had him. Our yard is also fenced in, but I do suppose Marvin could jump the fence if he really wanted to.
Well...4 months later my 3 cats still aren't accepting Marvin, he chases my rabbit that can't be caged (hes too spoiled), and doesn't get along with my husband or I (doesn't like us petting him and will try to bite if we do).
My MIL hasn't asked about him either. I know she probably cares about him, but the way I see it....she dumped her cat on us. She thought it would just be convenient to leave the cat with us then try to find him a new home.
I think this house is too small for 4 cats (only a 2 bedroom with an AZ room) and that's causing issues with my cats getting along. The other issue is that Marvin wants to go outside REALLY bad....he bolts to the doors when they open, sits in front of an open window for hours, and follows us all around the house because he thinks we are going to open the door to let him outside. I know the cat is really unhappy with us.
The problem is is that I refuse to let him go outside and then come back inside. I don't want fleas in my house because of my rabbits (and the expense to get rid of fleas!) and I also am afraid Marvin will get a disease from being outside with other cats and infect my kitties who are inside only.
I guess what I am asking is....would it be that bad if Marvin was an outside only kitty (he was practically that 4 months ago) or should we look into rehoming him to someone where he can be the only cat and go inside/outside? I just know he hates being inside and its probably torture to him....I can just feel his frustration/sadness.
We live in a non-busy neighborhood, never see any stray dogs...but around the block from us is a small Indian reservation where I know coyotes are. I don't think Marvin would venture that far, but who knows....he did survive outside for 2 years when my MIL had him. Our yard is also fenced in, but I do suppose Marvin could jump the fence if he really wanted to.