Oh, such good news - and I'm glad your husband was able to come along - so that you were able to get an even more detailed account of possibilities...and that sort of 'colleague to colleague' relationship can only be a good thing, as well as seeing your care and concern, and Hobbes charming everyone. And poor Calvin - trying to free his brother - I can only imagine what was going through his mind while you were all gone.
I am sorry that you had such a bad time with the carrier - I can only tell you that many many pet parents have the same issues, so it's nothing that you did at all...cats are very perceptive of moods and changes in environment, and above all they love consistency and staying home. I can tell you that Hobbes still loves you even if you had to squish him into the carrier....my Dharma stretches her legs so wide and fights so hard against going into her Sherpa bag that I'm in tears feeling I'm a terrible mommy - but she forgives me every time.
I'm so grateful that you and your husband made the resources available to get to a specialist -- your own vet will no doubt be fascinated by the findings and no doubt very happy that things aren't as dire as he feared. You guys are really my heroes for taking such wonderful care of your two boys - I hope you both sleep well tonight have get only more good news in days to come.
I am sorry that you had such a bad time with the carrier - I can only tell you that many many pet parents have the same issues, so it's nothing that you did at all...cats are very perceptive of moods and changes in environment, and above all they love consistency and staying home. I can tell you that Hobbes still loves you even if you had to squish him into the carrier....my Dharma stretches her legs so wide and fights so hard against going into her Sherpa bag that I'm in tears feeling I'm a terrible mommy - but she forgives me every time.
I'm so grateful that you and your husband made the resources available to get to a specialist -- your own vet will no doubt be fascinated by the findings and no doubt very happy that things aren't as dire as he feared. You guys are really my heroes for taking such wonderful care of your two boys - I hope you both sleep well tonight have get only more good news in days to come.