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So, those of you familiar with my frustration thread know that Nikita's not very affectionate as she was when I first got her, but still a bit affectionate while Prince has become much more affectionate...Well I've discovered something, and my friend, Nicole, brought up a point I hadn't thought of:
I had Nicole over to visit and see the cats, and she got them playing and so forth; well Nikita, though she is still somewhat affectionate with me but more independent and aloof now, is friendlier and more affectionate with Nicole (though as I type this, Nikita has just jumped into my lap). Nicole then suggested from my saying Nikita was taken care of by a female foster parent, that she may just be more used to women than men.
If that's the case, how do I get her to be more affectionate towards me, is that just something that time will depend on?
I had Nicole over to visit and see the cats, and she got them playing and so forth; well Nikita, though she is still somewhat affectionate with me but more independent and aloof now, is friendlier and more affectionate with Nicole (though as I type this, Nikita has just jumped into my lap). Nicole then suggested from my saying Nikita was taken care of by a female foster parent, that she may just be more used to women than men.
If that's the case, how do I get her to be more affectionate towards me, is that just something that time will depend on?