Hi, Hopefully someone can help me with this one? I've taken in a adult MALE cat that was apparently tossed out on my farm. This is the 1st male cat, dog, horse etc. that I have ever owned. ( Not sure why ) Anyway here's one of the problems that I am having. The cat is extremely mellow. Even though I've tried all sorts of different things to get him to be playful and active NO luck. BUT as soon as I turn off the lights and hit the bed the nightmare begins. He starts SCREAMING for me and I do mean Sreaming, like a was a female mate. He doesn't do this to any other family member just me. He won't leave me alone not even for a second. When my husband finally can't take it anymore and I put him (the cat that is
) in the pet crate things finally get quiet BUT then we have a different problem. Within 10 minutes he urinates or sprays so much that he fills the whole house up with that that most awful scent. I didn't know a cat was capable of holding all that fluid. To boot within the last 3 days he started acting extremely aggressive with me. (This sounds really strange) but he jumps up on my chair makes weird sounds acts as though he wants attention but when I go to pet him he trys to mount and bite at my hand just like I've seen the males do while mating. SORRY this got so long. PLEASE HELP !!! Diane