Hello everyone!!
I am so excited to be the owner of a cat. However, things are not going very well at all, and I know that it just takes time, but I was hoping that writing this would help me feel better, and I am looking for any advice.
Here is the story,
I was notified of a family that had a 3 year old cat, a tabby, that was just not getting along with their 13 month old, and they were worried about a baby along the way so they decided to give up the cat, to make it easier on the cat. The cat is neutered and declawed, and is in perfect help.
I went to pick up the cat and he took to me very quickly and we played for a minute, and I took the cat home. Well, the cat I met and the cat I brought home were completely different.
It has only been a couple of days, but he hisses and growls, who knew a cat could growl, at me and generally just does not show any interest in me. I unfortunately have to leave him at a family members house until my apartment is ready, so I have been going over every day to spend time with him, like hours at a time, and things are not improving, if anything, I feel that they are getting worse. He seems to be fine on his own, but when I am around it's completely different. This was a cat that loved people, and layed out in the middle of the floor with his stomach showing.
I know that it will take time, but I just worry that he will learn to enjoy living on his own, and not take to me. I will be taking him with me to my apartment in 2 weeks, and I just can't imagine how upset he will be with me there all the time.
This plus I was petting my family cat of ten years tonight and she hissed and snarled at me. I just am not feeling very loved right now.
I am so excited to be the owner of a cat. However, things are not going very well at all, and I know that it just takes time, but I was hoping that writing this would help me feel better, and I am looking for any advice.
Here is the story,
I was notified of a family that had a 3 year old cat, a tabby, that was just not getting along with their 13 month old, and they were worried about a baby along the way so they decided to give up the cat, to make it easier on the cat. The cat is neutered and declawed, and is in perfect help.
I went to pick up the cat and he took to me very quickly and we played for a minute, and I took the cat home. Well, the cat I met and the cat I brought home were completely different.
It has only been a couple of days, but he hisses and growls, who knew a cat could growl, at me and generally just does not show any interest in me. I unfortunately have to leave him at a family members house until my apartment is ready, so I have been going over every day to spend time with him, like hours at a time, and things are not improving, if anything, I feel that they are getting worse. He seems to be fine on his own, but when I am around it's completely different. This was a cat that loved people, and layed out in the middle of the floor with his stomach showing.
I know that it will take time, but I just worry that he will learn to enjoy living on his own, and not take to me. I will be taking him with me to my apartment in 2 weeks, and I just can't imagine how upset he will be with me there all the time.
This plus I was petting my family cat of ten years tonight and she hissed and snarled at me. I just am not feeling very loved right now.