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About a month ago, I adopted two semi-feral cats from a rescue. I already have another kitty from the same rescue. I have had him for 2 years. The 2 semi-ferals are brother and sister. They are four years old and their litter was found near a pond when they were three months old. So they have been in rescue for about 4 years. I was told they were shy, but not aggressive, Their vet reported that way in the notes, even. They have been alone in the guest room for almost this whole time. It's to the point where I can get the boy cat to come to me and I can scratch him on the belly and he rolls around purring. He will not come out from under the bed, he is still skittish, but that takes time. His sister, however... she is very aggressive, which truly surprised the owner of the rescue who claimed that no matter what kind of stressful situation she has been in, she has NEVER EVER lashed out like that. EVER. (emphasis not added by me). I just put my hand under the bed like I did with brother, and she full-on attacked my hand with claws and teeth. Then... I did not realize she was in the cat tower and when I knelt down next to the bed, my head was level with the hole and she attacked me in the face (like an ambush), and I was lucky I had my reading glasses on, or things could have been really bad. She started charging at me at one point when I even knelt next to the bed (she doesn't do that anymore, for now, thank heavens).
I was slowly introducing brother and sister to the resident cat. At one point it did not go very well- it went really off the rails. Resident cat ended up fighting with sister cat - like a REAL fight. Resident cat's ear got ripped. I have heard that if the cats get into a fight, then they will never get along, which I hope isn't the case. Obviously, they do not interact as much now. I leave the new kitties door open a crack with two door stops and a baby gate in front of it, so the door can't be pushed or pulled open further. I keep trying to interact with sister cat, even though she attacks me. She has really backed off. Today, I put my hand near her with a treat and she whacked me with her paw, but didn't use claws, which, I, personally think is progress. I could be deluded.
Ever since she attacked me in the face without provocation, people are telling me she needs to be sent back to the rescue, that she is dangerous. I don't know why her attitude has become drastically different. Maybe because of the fight? She didn't attack me before, she just cringed away. I even petted her a few times when she was in the cat tower (and basically couldn't get away), she didn't like it, but she didn't attack me either. I don't want to send her back. I know she will end up living there forever, like some other cats have in that rescue. I do not want to give up on her and basically send her back to an institution. The rescue is not necessarily a bad place, it's not rows and rows of cages or anything, they get lots of attention, and room to roam. But it isn't a home. After I was scratched in the face, my husband said he didn't mind if I wanted to still keep her on a "trial basis," but he is worried for me and his "vote" would be to send her back. Do you have any help for me on this? Someone suggested her attitude is maybe her saying she doesn't like it here. I don't know. Sorry for this being so long. I want to do the right thing, even if it is to send her back, no matter how hard that would be. I want the best for her. Thank you.
About a month ago, I adopted two semi-feral cats from a rescue. I already have another kitty from the same rescue. I have had him for 2 years. The 2 semi-ferals are brother and sister. They are four years old and their litter was found near a pond when they were three months old. So they have been in rescue for about 4 years. I was told they were shy, but not aggressive, Their vet reported that way in the notes, even. They have been alone in the guest room for almost this whole time. It's to the point where I can get the boy cat to come to me and I can scratch him on the belly and he rolls around purring. He will not come out from under the bed, he is still skittish, but that takes time. His sister, however... she is very aggressive, which truly surprised the owner of the rescue who claimed that no matter what kind of stressful situation she has been in, she has NEVER EVER lashed out like that. EVER. (emphasis not added by me). I just put my hand under the bed like I did with brother, and she full-on attacked my hand with claws and teeth. Then... I did not realize she was in the cat tower and when I knelt down next to the bed, my head was level with the hole and she attacked me in the face (like an ambush), and I was lucky I had my reading glasses on, or things could have been really bad. She started charging at me at one point when I even knelt next to the bed (she doesn't do that anymore, for now, thank heavens).
I was slowly introducing brother and sister to the resident cat. At one point it did not go very well- it went really off the rails. Resident cat ended up fighting with sister cat - like a REAL fight. Resident cat's ear got ripped. I have heard that if the cats get into a fight, then they will never get along, which I hope isn't the case. Obviously, they do not interact as much now. I leave the new kitties door open a crack with two door stops and a baby gate in front of it, so the door can't be pushed or pulled open further. I keep trying to interact with sister cat, even though she attacks me. She has really backed off. Today, I put my hand near her with a treat and she whacked me with her paw, but didn't use claws, which, I, personally think is progress. I could be deluded.
Ever since she attacked me in the face without provocation, people are telling me she needs to be sent back to the rescue, that she is dangerous. I don't know why her attitude has become drastically different. Maybe because of the fight? She didn't attack me before, she just cringed away. I even petted her a few times when she was in the cat tower (and basically couldn't get away), she didn't like it, but she didn't attack me either. I don't want to send her back. I know she will end up living there forever, like some other cats have in that rescue. I do not want to give up on her and basically send her back to an institution. The rescue is not necessarily a bad place, it's not rows and rows of cages or anything, they get lots of attention, and room to roam. But it isn't a home. After I was scratched in the face, my husband said he didn't mind if I wanted to still keep her on a "trial basis," but he is worried for me and his "vote" would be to send her back. Do you have any help for me on this? Someone suggested her attitude is maybe her saying she doesn't like it here. I don't know. Sorry for this being so long. I want to do the right thing, even if it is to send her back, no matter how hard that would be. I want the best for her. Thank you.