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I got a 4month kitten from a shelter a few days ago and am struggling with introducing him to the house. I have another 2year old cat that I've kept separate from the kitten.
The kitten seems like he didn't get a lot of human interaction at the shelter. The lady at the shelter told me their kittens aren't comfortable around people and that hopefully our other cat would teach him to be comfortable with us. Honestly, I'm a little surprised they don't take the time to interact with kittens when they're younger since that's the best time to socialize them. This place had a lot of cats/kittens though, so I'm guessing they just don't have the time.
Anyway, I'm a little unsure of how to go about this. Kitten has been with us for a few days and is veerryyy slowly getting more courage. He still hides under the bed most of the time and is too scared to play or interact with us too much. As I said though, we are making slow progress.
My resident cat is not happy. I wanted to gauge her reaction so I opened the bedroom door just a touch so she could smell the kitten. She reacted badly. Poofed out, hissing and was basically clawing at the door to try to get in (and I can only assume, kill the kitten). She was very aggressive. Needless to say, I need to take their introduction slow.
I'm not sure what the best way to do this is though. The lady at the shelter seemed to suggest it would be easier to introduce the kitten to the cat and then have him come around to us. On the flip side though, I'm wondering if I should keep the two completely away from each other until the kitten gets comfortable with us? Should I try to do both at the same time (get kitten comfy with us and get cat to accept kitten) or would that be too stressful for the kitten? I've heard smell exchange is good, but since the kitten won't let us get too close to him, I can't exactly rub a towel on him. Should I keep trying to open the door slightly from time to time, to let my cat get used to his smell that way?
This is my first time introducing two resident cats so any help would be appreciated.
The kitten seems like he didn't get a lot of human interaction at the shelter. The lady at the shelter told me their kittens aren't comfortable around people and that hopefully our other cat would teach him to be comfortable with us. Honestly, I'm a little surprised they don't take the time to interact with kittens when they're younger since that's the best time to socialize them. This place had a lot of cats/kittens though, so I'm guessing they just don't have the time.
Anyway, I'm a little unsure of how to go about this. Kitten has been with us for a few days and is veerryyy slowly getting more courage. He still hides under the bed most of the time and is too scared to play or interact with us too much. As I said though, we are making slow progress.
My resident cat is not happy. I wanted to gauge her reaction so I opened the bedroom door just a touch so she could smell the kitten. She reacted badly. Poofed out, hissing and was basically clawing at the door to try to get in (and I can only assume, kill the kitten). She was very aggressive. Needless to say, I need to take their introduction slow.
I'm not sure what the best way to do this is though. The lady at the shelter seemed to suggest it would be easier to introduce the kitten to the cat and then have him come around to us. On the flip side though, I'm wondering if I should keep the two completely away from each other until the kitten gets comfortable with us? Should I try to do both at the same time (get kitten comfy with us and get cat to accept kitten) or would that be too stressful for the kitten? I've heard smell exchange is good, but since the kitten won't let us get too close to him, I can't exactly rub a towel on him. Should I keep trying to open the door slightly from time to time, to let my cat get used to his smell that way?
This is my first time introducing two resident cats so any help would be appreciated.