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Hey folks,
this is my first post here, I am hoping to be enlighten on the apparently odd behavior of my new kitten.
We got her a couple of weeks ago from a old lady who couldn't take care anymore. She is about 5 months old and used to live with another younger male kitten( who is now with my in laws). Apparently they were very close, like for sleeping playing together etc.
She is very cuddly, of the kind that starts purring only by touching. Here begins the problem: she never comes close to be petted, we always need to grab her and place her on our laps and if she is on the mood there she stays for even hours purring and easily shows her belly to be petted (this is where she purrs louder and get to sleep tight).
But as I said: she never comes to us, so if she is not on the mood she just goes away and starts hiding and avoiding us for even one or two days, so this is the first problem
Other situation is; she's never with us on our the living room, she is just around with us on the kitchen. Even if I take her to the couch and start petting her she always run back away to the kitchen. We needed to move her bed there so she had a warm place to sleep. When we are on the kitchen she is always around, rubbing our legs and doing cat stuff.
So my questions are:
1. Is this a normal behavior of her having limits to go into my house even if I never set this bound?
2. What about this behavior of never looking for us for cuddling even she obviously joining it a lot?
3. Should we stop taking her to out laps? May this be causing her to hide some times.
I am inclined to believe these behaviors is related to her being on a new home and being the only cat now. Is there any way I can revert this situation and make she gets around the family common areas and stop hiding?
Thnks folks
this is my first post here, I am hoping to be enlighten on the apparently odd behavior of my new kitten.
We got her a couple of weeks ago from a old lady who couldn't take care anymore. She is about 5 months old and used to live with another younger male kitten( who is now with my in laws). Apparently they were very close, like for sleeping playing together etc.
She is very cuddly, of the kind that starts purring only by touching. Here begins the problem: she never comes close to be petted, we always need to grab her and place her on our laps and if she is on the mood there she stays for even hours purring and easily shows her belly to be petted (this is where she purrs louder and get to sleep tight).
But as I said: she never comes to us, so if she is not on the mood she just goes away and starts hiding and avoiding us for even one or two days, so this is the first problem
Other situation is; she's never with us on our the living room, she is just around with us on the kitchen. Even if I take her to the couch and start petting her she always run back away to the kitchen. We needed to move her bed there so she had a warm place to sleep. When we are on the kitchen she is always around, rubbing our legs and doing cat stuff.
So my questions are:
1. Is this a normal behavior of her having limits to go into my house even if I never set this bound?
2. What about this behavior of never looking for us for cuddling even she obviously joining it a lot?
3. Should we stop taking her to out laps? May this be causing her to hide some times.
I am inclined to believe these behaviors is related to her being on a new home and being the only cat now. Is there any way I can revert this situation and make she gets around the family common areas and stop hiding?
Thnks folks