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Hi everyone!
I'm really desperate for an opinion on my cat's behaviour. I have a 1.5 year old ragdoll and she's an adorable one. Really friendly and rarely does she get mad at anything or anybody. Even at 1 yr old, she's still playful as ever--but we feel sorry for her because she's alone in the condo when my husband and I are at work during the day. So we decided we want to get her a companion.
We got a 3 mos. old russian blue 3 days ago, and it makes me think that the breeder didn't even bother socializing it much because he was so spooked when we brought him home and obviously very scared of humans. We secluded the new kitten in our bathroom with everything he needs and every once in awhile we sit down and try to feed her and slowly try to get closer to him. He's so spooked that whenever we're inside he's going to position himself far away from where we're seating.
After 2 days when he's not so scared of us anymore we started introducing him to our ragdoll. At first we let them smell each other through a pet carrier alternatively. I thought we'll be doing the routine for a whole week but then the new kitten seemed like it calmed down because of our cat. When we separate them again, the kitten will meow endlessly and wants to come out of the bathroom just to be around my cat.
So after while, we slowly let them be around each other. The kitten seemed more confident and not so scared anymore to go out of the bathroom. At first there was some hissing and growling so we'll separate them again to calm down. In just a day, they adapted to each other so much that by night, they were already chasing around the condo! My ragdoll is rough player so she'll paw and swat the kitty but the kitty runs away. I'm not entirely sure if she's chasing him away or she's just playing with him. I looked for signs if she's angry (flat ears, upward tail, hissing, etc.) but there was nothing. When my cat chases the kitty down, the kitty will sometimes roll and lie on the floor. I read somewhere that if a kitty lies down, it's showing it's vulnerable. So I guess it's not that mad? But sometimes the kitty's tail will also go upward but will still continue to approach my cat. When we try to separate them again, the kitty hates it but I'm worried that if I let the kitty out all the time so early with the introduction my cat will eventually get stressed.
The kitty also sometimes rubs himself to my cat while my cat swats him. I also caught my cat grooming my kitty but seems like my kitty just runs away from it.
I'm confused! I don't know what to make out of their behavior! It's only been 3 days, right now I'm at work and I left the kitty alone in the bathroom separated from my cat.
Any opinions? Thanks in advance!!!
I'm really desperate for an opinion on my cat's behaviour. I have a 1.5 year old ragdoll and she's an adorable one. Really friendly and rarely does she get mad at anything or anybody. Even at 1 yr old, she's still playful as ever--but we feel sorry for her because she's alone in the condo when my husband and I are at work during the day. So we decided we want to get her a companion.
We got a 3 mos. old russian blue 3 days ago, and it makes me think that the breeder didn't even bother socializing it much because he was so spooked when we brought him home and obviously very scared of humans. We secluded the new kitten in our bathroom with everything he needs and every once in awhile we sit down and try to feed her and slowly try to get closer to him. He's so spooked that whenever we're inside he's going to position himself far away from where we're seating.
After 2 days when he's not so scared of us anymore we started introducing him to our ragdoll. At first we let them smell each other through a pet carrier alternatively. I thought we'll be doing the routine for a whole week but then the new kitten seemed like it calmed down because of our cat. When we separate them again, the kitten will meow endlessly and wants to come out of the bathroom just to be around my cat.
So after while, we slowly let them be around each other. The kitten seemed more confident and not so scared anymore to go out of the bathroom. At first there was some hissing and growling so we'll separate them again to calm down. In just a day, they adapted to each other so much that by night, they were already chasing around the condo! My ragdoll is rough player so she'll paw and swat the kitty but the kitty runs away. I'm not entirely sure if she's chasing him away or she's just playing with him. I looked for signs if she's angry (flat ears, upward tail, hissing, etc.) but there was nothing. When my cat chases the kitty down, the kitty will sometimes roll and lie on the floor. I read somewhere that if a kitty lies down, it's showing it's vulnerable. So I guess it's not that mad? But sometimes the kitty's tail will also go upward but will still continue to approach my cat. When we try to separate them again, the kitty hates it but I'm worried that if I let the kitty out all the time so early with the introduction my cat will eventually get stressed.
The kitty also sometimes rubs himself to my cat while my cat swats him. I also caught my cat grooming my kitty but seems like my kitty just runs away from it.
I'm confused! I don't know what to make out of their behavior! It's only been 3 days, right now I'm at work and I left the kitty alone in the bathroom separated from my cat.
Any opinions? Thanks in advance!!!