New Kitten Afraid of Everyone But Me

alissa

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After losing my 5-year-old who was the love of my life to vaccine-associated sarcoma back in June, I just adopted a 12-week-old kitten. He was very friendly when I first met him in the shelter. I am confining him to my bedroom for now. I put all of his supplies in there, and have a plexiglass panel across the door, so he can't get out, but he can see out and I can look in on him.

When I first brought him home, he was a little nervous at first, but then he got used to his surroundings very quickly and made himself right at home. Plus, he seemed to bond with me very quickly. He was playing and eating well, following me around and generally seemed to be doing well and having a great time.

Meanwhile, I live in my parents' second home. They only come down on weekends in the summer. I was expecting him to be friendly toward them. But when they came down today, he hid under the bed and will not come out. I held him and tried to introduce him to my parents, who love animals. But he got scared and ran back under the bed. 

I saw other people handle him at the shelter, and he was friendly toward them. I am kind of surprised, because he seems well-socialized. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. 
 

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Hi Alissa and welcome to the site!


Is it just you and your little boy in the house?  Cats do need socialisation, and it sounds as though he has become very used to your company but not to other people.  It's really important that he gets positive time with other people if you want him to 'expand his horizens'


If your parents just sat in the room with him but ignoring him, he will be more used to having them around.  From there, progress to them feeding him (always a winner!)  and playing interactive games.

I'm sure they'll win him over - just patience and love will do the trick. 
 
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Thanks. Since I posted that, just yesterday, he has already started to warm up to my parents. He lets them hold and pet him. He's a fast learner!
 

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That's lovely.

Glad to hear it.
 
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