We just adopted a 2 year old male two weeks ago. He was very freaked out the first two nights, but once he took up under our bed and we confined him to the room, he started to improve. He now eats twice daily, uses the litter box and at night when we go to bed he leaves to explore the rest of the apartment and usually spends it in the living room.
My concern is that he’s still spending most of his time under the bed once we get home. We’ve finally gotten him to respond to toys (feather wand) but he will come no where near us and bolts if you make sudden movements. We’ve even gotten him to eat some treats, but only after you put it down in front of him and walk away.
So really I’m worried that he’s not acclimating to US very well. We go to the bedroom a few times in the evening to say hi (laying down on the floor next to him) and play a bit. But sometimes he’ll back away from our touch. And then some afternoons he comes into the living room while we’re watching tv and just stares at us for 10 min, then leaves.
Is there anything else we could be doing to make him like us? I always read entice him with toys and treats, but we do that daily and haven’t seen improvement in a few days. I don’t mind if it takes him a while to let us pet him or physically touch him. I just want him to at least feel comfortable in the same room with us.
We have a feliway diffuser in the bedroom where he spends most of his time, and I use the spray on his tree and other furniture. I’m just wondering if there’s any other tricks out there that we could be doing to make him feel more comfortable around us. He was described as shy after being found on the streets but he was in a foster home with many cats and was said to be friendly after 2 months.
Anything we could be doing different?
My concern is that he’s still spending most of his time under the bed once we get home. We’ve finally gotten him to respond to toys (feather wand) but he will come no where near us and bolts if you make sudden movements. We’ve even gotten him to eat some treats, but only after you put it down in front of him and walk away.
So really I’m worried that he’s not acclimating to US very well. We go to the bedroom a few times in the evening to say hi (laying down on the floor next to him) and play a bit. But sometimes he’ll back away from our touch. And then some afternoons he comes into the living room while we’re watching tv and just stares at us for 10 min, then leaves.
Is there anything else we could be doing to make him like us? I always read entice him with toys and treats, but we do that daily and haven’t seen improvement in a few days. I don’t mind if it takes him a while to let us pet him or physically touch him. I just want him to at least feel comfortable in the same room with us.
We have a feliway diffuser in the bedroom where he spends most of his time, and I use the spray on his tree and other furniture. I’m just wondering if there’s any other tricks out there that we could be doing to make him feel more comfortable around us. He was described as shy after being found on the streets but he was in a foster home with many cats and was said to be friendly after 2 months.
Anything we could be doing different?