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I could really use some advice. I had a 17 yo cat who passed away a year ago. This left me with a boy cat who is now 8yo. Moe has inflammatory bowel and is on meds. Since he got along so well with the previous cat, I went to a shelter and adopted a female cat, spayed 7 years old. She was a stray, but found by a family and lived with parents/teens/cat/and a dog for 7 years. The family lost their home and surrendered this cat (Lucy). When I brought her home she was restricted to a room of her own. She seemed very scared at first, but after about 2 weeks she started going into a room next to her room. At night she will now sometimes come downstairs. Moe (resident cat) was hissing at first, but has completely chilled out and basically just wants to be friends. Lucy hisses and growls whenever she sees Moe, and has tried to swat at him once - that I have witnessed. Lucy just has nasty behavior towards Moe, but purrs around me. She is kind of spastic though - like I can't pick her up much at all, and she bites lightly sometimes, and is very reactive if I suddenly pet her or move fast etc. It has been a month now, and all that is happened is that Moe has adjusted and Lucy has gotten probably a little meaner towards Moe. Does anyone have any feelings about how long I let this go on? If it isn't going to get better, I feel I need to return her to the shelter. She is upsetting Moe, and stress is going to work against his medical condition. Right now he is afraid to eat his wet food unless he is put up on a counter. I feel horrible contemplating bringing Lucy back to the shelter, but my apartment is small and this has been a constant problem. It seems like a month is long enough to have some idea if they will get along - but maybe not. I think I am going off of the fact that Moe had a normal response of being upset at first, hissing, getting used to it slowly, and acceptance. Any suggestions, ideas, experiences etc would be greatly appreciated. I have looked online until my eyes hurt, and I have gone to the vet (he said it takes time - shelter said it likely won't work out). Thanks for any help you can give!