Hi everyone,
We got a new cat almost three weeks ago. She is very sweet but over time she has gotten more reclusive. She will stay under our bed the entire day, and only comes out to eat. She will also sleep with us in our bed during the night, but in the morning after she eats, she is back under the bed.
I think she is terrified of our noisy/busy household. There are 5 of us, including two very loud boys (ages 13 and 5). They are very gentle with the cats (we also have another one) and only go in one at a time to see her in our bedroom. Even so, she is afraid of them. She used to be a stray and perhaps she had a bad experience with children before... I just don't know. She is fine with our other cat but won't venture out from under the bed. One time I was able to lure her into the hallway, but she quickly ran into the washroom and hid behind the toilet.
She always looks so sad. I try to play with her but she usually will only stick out her paws from under the bed, and sometimes her head.
Any advice? Will she always be terrified of our active and noisy household?
We got a new cat almost three weeks ago. She is very sweet but over time she has gotten more reclusive. She will stay under our bed the entire day, and only comes out to eat. She will also sleep with us in our bed during the night, but in the morning after she eats, she is back under the bed.
I think she is terrified of our noisy/busy household. There are 5 of us, including two very loud boys (ages 13 and 5). They are very gentle with the cats (we also have another one) and only go in one at a time to see her in our bedroom. Even so, she is afraid of them. She used to be a stray and perhaps she had a bad experience with children before... I just don't know. She is fine with our other cat but won't venture out from under the bed. One time I was able to lure her into the hallway, but she quickly ran into the washroom and hid behind the toilet.
She always looks so sad. I try to play with her but she usually will only stick out her paws from under the bed, and sometimes her head.
Any advice? Will she always be terrified of our active and noisy household?