So i recently just got a cat from a fellow member on the site who had to give him away, so far things are good but he is very scared of males and it almost makes me wonder if maybe he wasnt treated great but anyways i could use some help, so Vader i got on last saturday and he was a little scared from the drive by i tired to introduce him to us slowly. he was very scared and wary of us, he was a feral at one point so that might explain alot as well but anyways, for the past week i have been trying to bond with him but he runs under our bed to the deepest darkest corner and sits there, the only way to get him out is by removing the bed and box springs to get to him but he freaks out and hisses all crazy. so i decided to just put him in a mesh cat tent that way he could be exposed to the other cats and see that we dont harm any cats around here. He has seemed to calm a little but he still is very wary, i let him out to wonder a little but he trys to get under the couch and hide and i dont want that again. i need some advise please. I am not willing to take him to the pound either i am a cat lover and i want him to love us no matter how long that takes. Thanks