Hi, I was wondering if you could help me with advice.
I've always wanted a cat, but for various reasons, I never could get one - before now. However, I'm also pregnant (the baby is coming in February) and I'm torn about when would be the right time to finally get a cat.
This is my thinking. If I get a new cat right now, then I'll have a more time before the baby comes to spend time with it, to train it to behave, and finally, the cat will be older and maybe more mature when the baby comes? I'll be working full-time throughout my pregnancy, and then I'll have a few months off.
On the other hand, I'm worried that the cat will be jealous when the baby comes, as I will inevitably have less time for it, and that it will be more stressful for the cat to get used to the new family member than if I get it after the baby is already part of the household. But, if I wait until the baby comes, I'm afraid that having a new baby and a new cat at the same time might not be feasible energy-wise.
I really don't wait to wait a few more years (until the baby is grown, as some people keep telling me) because chances are there'll be more babies in my life and I'll never get the cat!
I've always wanted a cat, but for various reasons, I never could get one - before now. However, I'm also pregnant (the baby is coming in February) and I'm torn about when would be the right time to finally get a cat.
This is my thinking. If I get a new cat right now, then I'll have a more time before the baby comes to spend time with it, to train it to behave, and finally, the cat will be older and maybe more mature when the baby comes? I'll be working full-time throughout my pregnancy, and then I'll have a few months off.
On the other hand, I'm worried that the cat will be jealous when the baby comes, as I will inevitably have less time for it, and that it will be more stressful for the cat to get used to the new family member than if I get it after the baby is already part of the household. But, if I wait until the baby comes, I'm afraid that having a new baby and a new cat at the same time might not be feasible energy-wise.
I really don't wait to wait a few more years (until the baby is grown, as some people keep telling me) because chances are there'll be more babies in my life and I'll never get the cat!