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Hey fellow cat owners - I'm looking for some advice/support. I moved into my first apartment to allow cats three months ago, and immediately started researching and meeting potential adoptees in shelters and foster homes. I did my homework, and had some reservations (mostly about having any pet in a small apartment) but ultimately met the perfect cat. I've had Jay, a three-year-old orange tabby, for about a week now, and he's exactly what I expected - he's affectionate, well-behaved, uses his litter box like a champ, and barely even sheds!
The problem in this new ownership is me. I feel totally overwhelmed and a little bit regretful. He is one happy camper, and is really coming out of his shell. I'm so glad to see him adjusting, but he's no longer the sad shelter cat who just wants to be petted. He's quite an explorer and I'm worried about him when he's left alone for 6-10 hours a day. I grew up with cats, but didn't realize the amount of responsibility it becomes when you're the sole owner and provider of love and attention.
He's such a great cat that I wish he had other people or animals in his life, particularly during the day. He loves everyone and everything, but unfortunately, another pet isn't an option for me. Will he settle down without becoming sad? Should I seek out a loving family that could keep him the energetic and loving guy he is? I would never return him to the shelter; I'm just afraid I'm not doing what's best for him.
The problem in this new ownership is me. I feel totally overwhelmed and a little bit regretful. He is one happy camper, and is really coming out of his shell. I'm so glad to see him adjusting, but he's no longer the sad shelter cat who just wants to be petted. He's quite an explorer and I'm worried about him when he's left alone for 6-10 hours a day. I grew up with cats, but didn't realize the amount of responsibility it becomes when you're the sole owner and provider of love and attention.
He's such a great cat that I wish he had other people or animals in his life, particularly during the day. He loves everyone and everything, but unfortunately, another pet isn't an option for me. Will he settle down without becoming sad? Should I seek out a loving family that could keep him the energetic and loving guy he is? I would never return him to the shelter; I'm just afraid I'm not doing what's best for him.