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My gf and I adopted a cat from the shelter yesterday, and she has not stopped yowling since. We first noticed she was very vocal in the car on the ride home, she kept meowing but relaxed once we gave her attention, and pet her she seems to stop... If only for a few minutes then starts up again. We let her explore the room a little, and she would sit and the door and meow continuously... For hours. We made the mistake of spraying her with a water bottle and after reading up that it will only worsen things, we tried to do as advised and ignore her. But she won't stop! At night time we had her in the bedroom with us but it became too unbearable we could not sleep... We put her in a seperate room alone and she only got louder and howled for 7 hours until 6 in the morning...
Is this abnormal behavior for a new cat???? She literally had not stopped meowing for 24 hours and it isn't that we don't love her because she is sweet and affectionate but maybe we just are not equipped to handle the adjustment period it takes for a new cat to get used to a home??? I am worried that this is not going to work out and feel horrible but we are honestly considering taking her back if this keeps on like this.. Our other cat hears her in the next room and is freaking out and stressed. Help, we don't know what to do!! Is this some kind of unfixable separation anxiety problem, or are we supposed to just leave her alone and let her keep meowing like this?? She is clearly distressed and unhappy. Please give any advice, experienced cat owners!!
Is this abnormal behavior for a new cat???? She literally had not stopped meowing for 24 hours and it isn't that we don't love her because she is sweet and affectionate but maybe we just are not equipped to handle the adjustment period it takes for a new cat to get used to a home??? I am worried that this is not going to work out and feel horrible but we are honestly considering taking her back if this keeps on like this.. Our other cat hears her in the next room and is freaking out and stressed. Help, we don't know what to do!! Is this some kind of unfixable separation anxiety problem, or are we supposed to just leave her alone and let her keep meowing like this?? She is clearly distressed and unhappy. Please give any advice, experienced cat owners!!
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