Hello, I am new here, I have a british blue female cat, she is seven years old and I have had her about five months. She is very nervous, how do other people manage with nervous cats? I have had cats all my life but never one as nervous as she is.
Hello Gilmargl
We seem to believe that pedigree cats have a better start in life than their mongrel cousins. However, there are too many people who believe they can make a lot of money fast by breeding pedigrees, sometimes in the most appalling conditions.
Neither Mogi nor Katy have the slightest interest in the great outdoors. I assume both had too much stress in the first few weeks or months of their lives. I am quite happy about this - the road outside is far busier than it was when I first moved here. I will be most surprised if your cat takes to the harness. It is not easy to even put it on a nervous cat let alone get her to go outside with you. If you just leave the door open for a few minutes every day you will soon see whether or not she wants to put her nose outside. If something startles her she will automatically run straight back inside. As far as I can see, the only danger, that she will run in the opposite direction, is if another cat chases her. Lilly once escaped intending to chase another cat who dared to enter our garden, but the intruder was much stronger. He assumed our garden was his territory, attacked Lilly who was then too frightened to come home. We found her hiding in the bushes. She had been bitten but no complications, fortunately.
Still, I wish you luck - by the way Mogi has been much less nervous this weekend. She even followed my grandson (12 yrs) around the house for a couple of treats. I hope it's not simply because Lilly is growing weaker (she has kidney problems) and cannot be bothered to defend her space. At the moment she seems to be her normal self. We will see.