I've had such a bad last few days that I just needed to rant. It all has to do with my ex. First off, I'll give you a little history. He refuses to pay child support since 1) he doesn't believe he should have to pay more than $100 a month since he just bought a new car and figures that its more improtant, and 2) he believes that I was cheating on him and the child is not his(boy is he in for a surprise when he finds out that I wasn't
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All through the pregnancy, only two phone calls. Then he calls the day I gave birth to well at me because I didn't call him and he had to find out through his father(my mother called his father to let him know) Then I don't get another phone call until two weeks later(didn't even mention the baby in the phone call. I had to bring him up) He saw the baby once (and boy was that horrible!!) he smoked right in front of the baby, even though I had told him that the baby has been wheezing alot and not to smoke around him, he also showed almost no interest in the baby, and right when my mother and I were ready to leave, he showed his jack russell terrier (who is very jelous and has actually killed one of his cats) right into the baby's face and said "here monkey, give the baby a kiss!!" Good thing my mother pulled Angelus away just in time.
Then I don't get another phone call for another month. I was busy at the time, so I asked him to call back in an hour. He didn't call back until last Saturday, when he told me that he was comming down next weekend and that he wanted to see the baby. He then asked if he could take me out to dinner, and when I told him that I couldn't because I had the baby, duh! He asked me if I could just leave it somewhere!!! Obviously I told the freak no, an d told him that he could see the baby at my mother's house on saturday, and that he can stay all day if he likes (little does he know that if he does do this, he will be changing all the dirty diapers) He then said that he wasn't sure if he wanted to because he doesn't like my father, and asked if I could just sit in the mall with the baby all day instead! Is he serious!?
Needless to say, this guy is very irressponsible, lazy, and crazy. I'm taking him to court soon for child support, and he told me that he's going to try to sue for full custody(Even though he can't afford to pay me $100 a month), whereas I'm going for suppervised visitation rights(sinces he's not trustworth and I fear for my childs life around him)
I'm trying to be civilized around him for my sons sake, but its so freaking hard
Sorry this is so long, I just really needed to rank!
All through the pregnancy, only two phone calls. Then he calls the day I gave birth to well at me because I didn't call him and he had to find out through his father(my mother called his father to let him know) Then I don't get another phone call until two weeks later(didn't even mention the baby in the phone call. I had to bring him up) He saw the baby once (and boy was that horrible!!) he smoked right in front of the baby, even though I had told him that the baby has been wheezing alot and not to smoke around him, he also showed almost no interest in the baby, and right when my mother and I were ready to leave, he showed his jack russell terrier (who is very jelous and has actually killed one of his cats) right into the baby's face and said "here monkey, give the baby a kiss!!" Good thing my mother pulled Angelus away just in time.
Then I don't get another phone call for another month. I was busy at the time, so I asked him to call back in an hour. He didn't call back until last Saturday, when he told me that he was comming down next weekend and that he wanted to see the baby. He then asked if he could take me out to dinner, and when I told him that I couldn't because I had the baby, duh! He asked me if I could just leave it somewhere!!! Obviously I told the freak no, an d told him that he could see the baby at my mother's house on saturday, and that he can stay all day if he likes (little does he know that if he does do this, he will be changing all the dirty diapers) He then said that he wasn't sure if he wanted to because he doesn't like my father, and asked if I could just sit in the mall with the baby all day instead! Is he serious!?
Needless to say, this guy is very irressponsible, lazy, and crazy. I'm taking him to court soon for child support, and he told me that he's going to try to sue for full custody(Even though he can't afford to pay me $100 a month), whereas I'm going for suppervised visitation rights(sinces he's not trustworth and I fear for my childs life around him)
I'm trying to be civilized around him for my sons sake, but its so freaking hard
Sorry this is so long, I just really needed to rank!