I'm having a really bad day. I'm really stressed out about money, especially since hubby doesn't have a job, and doesn't seem too concerned about getting one. We've been 30 days late on his cell phone bill for about 6 months or more, and as long as we pay at least one month they were OK with it. But I got a notice yesterday that if they don't receive payment in full they will shut it off. I'm putting off bills as it is right now, medical, our old internet service, our wedding album. Pretty sad, we have been married going on 2 years and I still haven't seen the album - we can't afford to pay them. None of this seems to bother him at all. He says it does, he says he's "stressed" about the money, but his actions say otherwise. We even moved to a cheaper apartment to try to get the finances back on track, but it isn't working out that way. I'm still over my head in debt, only now there is almost no income from him. He's sold some of his collectibles on Ebay, which will help for this month, but not next month. He gets mad at me for stressing about bills a month from now, too. Planning ahead apparently isn't an option for him.
I hate that I am working 9 hours a day, have to keep the house up because he's too lazy to do any of it, he won't get a job, and yet I'm supposed to figure out how to make ends meet. He actually gets mad at ME for asking if he has looked for a job! I should have known better before I married him. Of the 7 years we have been together, he has had a job maybe 3 of those years total. Of course, one of those years he didn't have a job was because of a car accident (he was mad at me, threw a temper tantrum and tried to speed off from me, but rammed into a telephone pole), so at least he did get wage loss from the insurance company. I have supported him since we met, I had to declare bankruptcy because of the huge amounts of money we spent on the credit cards, and there is still no end in sight. I can't do this much longer, financially or emotionally.
Thanks for listening. I really needed to get this off my chest.
I hate that I am working 9 hours a day, have to keep the house up because he's too lazy to do any of it, he won't get a job, and yet I'm supposed to figure out how to make ends meet. He actually gets mad at ME for asking if he has looked for a job! I should have known better before I married him. Of the 7 years we have been together, he has had a job maybe 3 of those years total. Of course, one of those years he didn't have a job was because of a car accident (he was mad at me, threw a temper tantrum and tried to speed off from me, but rammed into a telephone pole), so at least he did get wage loss from the insurance company. I have supported him since we met, I had to declare bankruptcy because of the huge amounts of money we spent on the credit cards, and there is still no end in sight. I can't do this much longer, financially or emotionally.
Thanks for listening. I really needed to get this off my chest.