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I can't believe i'm writing this..I usually dont' mind sharing personal things on here but this is wayy more personal that I am usually comfortable with. But anyway, I really feel like I need to talk to someone because I am not sure what I'm experiencing is normal for a 4 year relationship with someone!!
Okay so I've always had issues with my boyfriend, he has driven me crazy many times and our relationship has been on and off, but we've never been apart for more than like 2-3 days. After we break up we usually run back to each other and everything becomes perfect for a while.
We were both 17 when we started dating, and I'll be 21 next month so we've come a long way. The problem is, I've changed so much since we started dating and he hasnt' really changed all that much.. Ahh I won't go on and on listing all of the things that bother me because this will never end. Lately I look at him and I barely feel any attraction....I could never say this to him though because I know it will make him feel crappy..
The thing is, how do I break up with someone who has been my best friend and more for 4 years? We've had rough times but we are so comfortable with each other it's like he's not even a separate person but an extention of me...This is an unhealthy way to have a relationship with someone I know that for sure. But what can I do?? I feel like I need to probably see my therapist that I used to see for depression a few years ago and talk to her to clear my head....
Okay so I've always had issues with my boyfriend, he has driven me crazy many times and our relationship has been on and off, but we've never been apart for more than like 2-3 days. After we break up we usually run back to each other and everything becomes perfect for a while.
We were both 17 when we started dating, and I'll be 21 next month so we've come a long way. The problem is, I've changed so much since we started dating and he hasnt' really changed all that much.. Ahh I won't go on and on listing all of the things that bother me because this will never end. Lately I look at him and I barely feel any attraction....I could never say this to him though because I know it will make him feel crappy..
The thing is, how do I break up with someone who has been my best friend and more for 4 years? We've had rough times but we are so comfortable with each other it's like he's not even a separate person but an extention of me...This is an unhealthy way to have a relationship with someone I know that for sure. But what can I do?? I feel like I need to probably see my therapist that I used to see for depression a few years ago and talk to her to clear my head....