The separation needs to be for many days, perhaps longer. Hang in there. I hope you feel better soon. The flu sucks!
You know..... You might be trying TOO hard. :dk: I wonder if the cats are cluing in on your stress over the situation. I know you said your place is small, but I think at this point, I would stop trying and confine Sasha to that room for a couple of weeks. Maybe all of the room switching is putting more pressure on them. I am just not sure. But want you to know, I empathize with you and completely understand this dilemma. Personally, I want to say sorry for anyone who might have offended you. I think people are trying to help but sometimes the words don't come out right and you are so emotionally drained from these past six weeks. Totally understandable. I am sending you MEGA MEGA vibes that things between the cats will work out, in time. Whatever you decide, we are here for you...I wont give up without a fight I love her so much and these being the first cats i ever had ( i am 33) I just dont understand why after being with them for 6 years she cant be with them. I will continue the blanket bed switching. Tomorrow when I am home more I will try the put sasha in the room they are mainly in and them in her safe room for a few hours each day. One step at a time. She is my girl I have nursed her back this far now I want to sit down with all them and explain its ok and help them all but when i do they just stare at me