She is constantly howling and screaming at the windows and doors if any other cat from the neighborhood comes around. It took her almost 3 years to finally be somewhat comfortable around my other cat. he's terrified of her when she starts trying to attack other cats through the windows.
both my cats are rescues, and my mainecoon was once ferel. Some friends of mine got her for me after I had lost my cat smokey. The problem is, most cats choose their owners, not the other way around. She didn't choose me, and in 7 years we have never really bonded. She's lovable at times, but more often she is standoff-ish, and dreads my presence.
Today she tried to attack a neighbor's kitten through the window. I am just heartbroken. But I now see that I should have returned her to the rescue organization instead of trying to make it work. I just so much wanted to make a good home for her.
I needed to share with a community that would understand. If anyone knows of some good rescue organizations in North Hollywood, CA please let me know. I'm going to start my search now.