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I need some advice from some cat experts.. I feel like I've made a huge mistake. :/ I brought a 10 week old kitten home last weekend. I have been wanting to get a kitten for probably a month or two now.. I know I know.. I should have waited longer until deciding to bring another life into my home instead of deciding so quickly. The kitten is so very sweet and cuddly to my boyfriend and I and of course VERY playful and crazy. I am the idiot who I guess did not think about the fact that this is a baby I'm bringing home and needs a lot more care than an adult cat since he's so young and has to be constantly watched. This is not the main reason I feel I've made a mistake by bringing this kitten home. I also have a golden retriever who is my entire world. To be clear, he is AMAZING with the kitten. he has not chased or been rough with him even one time. he is very gentle and wags his tail at the kitten hoping the kitten wants to play with him, but the kitten is still scared of him due to his size and probably just being in a new home. Because the kitten is scared, any time my golden walks by or comes near, he would hiss at him, which for some reason scared the heck out of my 70 pound dog and so if kitten is in bed with us, my dog will not or is very hesitant to get in the bed with us. same with our couch. My golden is not acting himself. He gets a spoon of peanut butter in the morning when my boyfriend makes his breakfast, he didn't want it yesterday. This is dumb but he also comes in the bathroom every time my boyfriend is done taking a shower to lick his face. literally has done this since he came home at 7 1/2 weeks old..now he is hesitant to even come in the bathroom because the kitten is in there at the time. It is breaking my heart seeing my dog uncomfortable in his own home and not being himself. He is also sensing mine and my boyfriends stress when we get home at 6PM from work because we can't cook dinner or do much of anything without having to get the kitten to stop doing something, chewing scratching things he shouldn't, getting on kitchen counter, eating the dogs food, etc. It makes me feel bad to say, but my dog is literally my number one priority. He is my best friend, my baby, seriously my number one over anyone. This is the main reason I feel like I made a mistake bringing home a kitten. I feel awful because it turns out I just do not love the kitten as I feel I should.. he should be part of my family and he is being treated as so.. we love on him constantly and play a lot, but I have the constant thought that I do not want him now. I AM AWFUL. I know. I've never been in this situation. my golden was the first animal I have had as an adult and this kitten is my second and I have always been the person that seems to judge people when they want to rehome their animals. I feel like the kitten should be in a home that his family really wants him there and loves him as much as I love my golden. The other reasons I am questions my decision is that I barely have the time to take care of myself and do the things I want to for myself and now I've got a kitten to raise and take care. what the heck was I thinking? ugh. I feel like I really want to rehome the kitten, however this may be dumb.. but if I do.. will he think he did something wrong and we didn't want him? is he already bonded with me? is he going to be depressed, or is he too young? please help! any advice on what I should do is appreciated. and again, I feel awful as it is with my irresponsible decision and I've never posted on something like this.. i'm just looking for some advice on what I should do and if my kitten will be just find if rehomed.