This cat was previously owned, he's fixed and relates to humans, but he prefers to be outside. It's taken me a year and a half to get him to come on our deck, lived under our neighbour's deck for a year after that. He's got a wonderful temperment.
I digress, the problem I am having is me. He cries to go out and it's tearing at my heartstrings. My friend that works in a shelter tells me to be steong, but it upsets me so. It's been 3 full days so far. He plays a little, but his attention eventually goes to outside. When he can't get out, he gives up and gos sleep somewhere. I have another cat about the same age and they get along. They're not buddies, but they get along.
Should I continue to ignore his soulful pleas? Looking for support.
I digress, the problem I am having is me. He cries to go out and it's tearing at my heartstrings. My friend that works in a shelter tells me to be steong, but it upsets me so. It's been 3 full days so far. He plays a little, but his attention eventually goes to outside. When he can't get out, he gives up and gos sleep somewhere. I have another cat about the same age and they get along. They're not buddies, but they get along.
Should I continue to ignore his soulful pleas? Looking for support.