I need some book recommendations.
I'm looking for a book or two to help me understand the psyche of someone suffering from post traumatic stress disorder (from fighting in a war, if that makes any difference) and a book or two to help me understand the psyche of an adult survivor of childhood abuse.
I'm not looking for clinical stuff or books on treating these things - but stuff that will help me communicate better with someone suffering from these things.
A very dear woman told me that
If anyone has any recommendations, thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Laurie
I'm looking for a book or two to help me understand the psyche of someone suffering from post traumatic stress disorder (from fighting in a war, if that makes any difference) and a book or two to help me understand the psyche of an adult survivor of childhood abuse.
I'm not looking for clinical stuff or books on treating these things - but stuff that will help me communicate better with someone suffering from these things.
A very dear woman told me that
I took a quick look - and there are a LOT of books on both subjects and I don't just want to take a stab in the dark with it."...someone like this hears you with their intellect but they don't "feel" any of it deep down. They are fully capable of sitting down and discussing things with you and sound perfectly logical and reasonable but it all comes from their grey matter, not their souls. They don't intimately believe in their own words.
Furthermore, you cant "tell" or even "suggest" to XXX what to do. They won't listen to you. They learned that loved ones could tell him to do things that weren't meant genuinely for their benefit.
If you have not already done so, read up and study about adult survivor of abuse and post traumatic stress disorders. Try to understand how and why XXX feels the things they feel and thinks those thoughts. With such understanding, when you talk to them you will be able to say things that will "hit home" to them and awaken the psyche that has been buried through the years. Appeal to XXX's soul and heart, not XXX's mind.
If anyone has any recommendations, thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Laurie