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I have a cat problem and desperately need advice. I have four cats, one senior male, his seven year old son, Danny and seven year old daughter Zoee and a forth seven year old male Mica who came from another source. I have had the younger ones since they were kittens and all three grew up together, all four are of course, neutered. They are strictly indoor cats as it has never been safe for them to go outside (traffic and coyotes).
In the last year, Mica and Danny have been fighting. Danny is emotionally unstable and Mica is usually the aggressor. Danny has taken to peeing on the walls and my furniture. I just spent and hour scrubbing my sofa with a CO2 cleaner. I am cleaning walls multiple times daily. Danny has had health problems but is well now. He grieved horribly for nearly a year after his buddy cat died and has never been quite the same since. Mica is a sweet cat, other than his issue with Danny. He talks a lot and follows me around and is a great pet. Danny is also sweet, other than his behavior issues, which are becoming unbearable.
Both cats have been health checked. I tried keeping Mica in the spare bedroom at night but Danny peed on the door and it didn't help the living room situation. Short of keeping someone in a kennel full time, I don't have any other separations options with the configuration of my house. Someone has to go. With Danny's problems I'm he isn't adoptable and am not sure he could handle it. Mica should be adoptable. The question is this: What are the chances that Danny's behavior will improve if Mica is removed? If I keep Mica, I think Danny will have to be put to sleep. I hate both of these options but don't know what to do. I could sure use some help.
I have a cat problem and desperately need advice. I have four cats, one senior male, his seven year old son, Danny and seven year old daughter Zoee and a forth seven year old male Mica who came from another source. I have had the younger ones since they were kittens and all three grew up together, all four are of course, neutered. They are strictly indoor cats as it has never been safe for them to go outside (traffic and coyotes).
In the last year, Mica and Danny have been fighting. Danny is emotionally unstable and Mica is usually the aggressor. Danny has taken to peeing on the walls and my furniture. I just spent and hour scrubbing my sofa with a CO2 cleaner. I am cleaning walls multiple times daily. Danny has had health problems but is well now. He grieved horribly for nearly a year after his buddy cat died and has never been quite the same since. Mica is a sweet cat, other than his issue with Danny. He talks a lot and follows me around and is a great pet. Danny is also sweet, other than his behavior issues, which are becoming unbearable.
Both cats have been health checked. I tried keeping Mica in the spare bedroom at night but Danny peed on the door and it didn't help the living room situation. Short of keeping someone in a kennel full time, I don't have any other separations options with the configuration of my house. Someone has to go. With Danny's problems I'm he isn't adoptable and am not sure he could handle it. Mica should be adoptable. The question is this: What are the chances that Danny's behavior will improve if Mica is removed? If I keep Mica, I think Danny will have to be put to sleep. I hate both of these options but don't know what to do. I could sure use some help.