Excellent advice! I absolutely agree that you should not confront them alone.. even if it's you and your friend. You really want to avoid any kind of confrontation whatsoever, I'm always paranoid that people (thugs) are going to retaliate over something incredibly stupid. Most criminals (or people paving their way to becoming one) are the quickest to retaliate against someone/thing that is trying to bring them to justice.
My poor sister, who struggles every day to make ends meet, just had her tires slashed for a second time. Of course she can't prove it - but KNOWS it's her ex who is jealous she's with someone else. Just like animal abuse- anyone who can commit a crime against someone or something, is very dangerous and needs to be stayed clear of.
I know we may all be making a much bigger deal than what it actually is - but w/ all the psycho's in this world, it's definitely not worth chancing.
Good luck and keep us posted.
My poor sister, who struggles every day to make ends meet, just had her tires slashed for a second time. Of course she can't prove it - but KNOWS it's her ex who is jealous she's with someone else. Just like animal abuse- anyone who can commit a crime against someone or something, is very dangerous and needs to be stayed clear of.
I know we may all be making a much bigger deal than what it actually is - but w/ all the psycho's in this world, it's definitely not worth chancing.
Good luck and keep us posted.
Originally Posted by Middletown
One of the best things NOT to do, is to let them know by your actions or body language is that they are getting to you and your friend. Preditors feast on fear.
Dont divert your eyes but dont stare either...show no fear only rational caution.
If possible have your husbands with you as you walk by. If anyother reason just to be seen with your hubbies.
and THEY ULTIMATE thing not to do is ANYTHING confrentational toward them when you are alone! for the safety of your cats and you!
GL
Ric