Ok, so thursday night my MIL (whom I hate
) borrowed $40 until she gets paid.. I wasn't happy because ANYtime we've needed money she's turned us down or if she did loan it to us, she bugged us every day until we paid her back.. Literally calling us at work 4-5times and at home another 4-5 times. And DH said she does NOT have to pay us back, which made me even more angry.
Well, last night she asked for another $20....
Why, I don't know... I thought she got paid
DH told her ok.. Well I wasn't home when she asked, otherwise I would have said NO... If you all knew the history between her and I you would understand... (She's EXTREMELY verbally abusive to me... Has even burned me once).. and not too long ago, she told me she wants me dead!
Sooooooooo, Should I loan her the money? I don't think I should. She's calling over and over to the point I've turned the ringer off. She thinks she will get DH to answer the phone (Which he never does). The woman is LITERALLY crazy!
I called her last night and told her I wasn't loaning her anymore money. I know, It's mean but you have to know the woman and the situation. When she was over here Thurs. she didn't even acknowledge that I was there. Not a Hi, or thank you... nothing. Just took the money from DH and left. I know it's not just MY money, but I manage it. This woman just ENRAGES me with her presence.
I know she's a single woman and lives alone but I am SOOO tired of hearing her complain about NO money but she will only do security jobs, and part time at night so she can sleep
When we were down and out, literally NO money before Christmas, she told us "Tough
. Go live in a shelter."
Anyways,
Should I loan her the money?
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Well, last night she asked for another $20....
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Sooooooooo, Should I loan her the money? I don't think I should. She's calling over and over to the point I've turned the ringer off. She thinks she will get DH to answer the phone (Which he never does). The woman is LITERALLY crazy!
I called her last night and told her I wasn't loaning her anymore money. I know, It's mean but you have to know the woman and the situation. When she was over here Thurs. she didn't even acknowledge that I was there. Not a Hi, or thank you... nothing. Just took the money from DH and left. I know it's not just MY money, but I manage it. This woman just ENRAGES me with her presence.
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I know she's a single woman and lives alone but I am SOOO tired of hearing her complain about NO money but she will only do security jobs, and part time at night so she can sleep
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When we were down and out, literally NO money before Christmas, she told us "Tough
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Anyways,
Should I loan her the money?