Hi, I was wondering if there was any behavior modification techniques for getting a stray Tom cat to behave more gentlemanly. Obviously he needs to be fixed (I am hoping to do that). I sometimes feed him. there are three tame strays who hang out on my porch and he chases them and beats them up. So I yesterday I decided to watch my tame ones eat. The Bully cat will not come up to the food until I leave. I'm actually trying to get him to come up by me. That would make him easier to catch to get fixed. He does come up and I pet him on the back, and then he backs off. Can bad boys learn manners?