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- Sep 20, 2013
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Hello, I have a very weird situation, First off for any one that knew, my Zazzy was misdiagnosed with FIP last a week ago, The vet called, he did NOT, have FIP. WHEW!! He is back to his beautiful self, I adore his playfulness but he will not cuddle with me , he plays with me , but very rough he bites and scratches my hand (I move it like a mouse and he attacks it). I started playing this with him when he was a kitten, so I know it's my fault . I don't mind but I would love some cuddle time. Now my 26 year old son, walks in and he meows, rubs on him, sits with him, and lay's with him, he purr's when my son pet's him. I feed him , I pay attention to him ( my son barley does, well more now since we thought we were gonna lose him) but hardly at all, again, I call him day and night to come to me , I practically beg him, I feed him , I buy him toy's , I clean his litter box daily, I get on all fours and play cat with him, I even meow with him. Idk , why does he hate when I try to pet him and will never sit with me. The only attention he gives mommy is that he does follow me around when I get up to go PT. early in the am, and throughout the day while my son works.So Why does my baby pay so much attention, to my son, and not me? Does he love me? I know it sounds weird, but I really really love my cat, my son is grown up, and I only see my gran-daughter on weekends, so he is my other "baby".