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Hi! I have this gorgeous beige tabby who LOVES people and usually go to anyone but he reeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaally hates my new housemate. We always joke that he is a bit of a ***** the way he will just be all over people :-) But with this guy, it is the complete opposite, and I have never seen him react like this to anyone. When he first came around to view the house, my cat was there and seemed indifferent to him but since he has moved in, if I am holding him and this guy comes even within a couple of meters, my cat freaks out and scratches me to get away. When this guy comes into the same room, the cat runs out of the house. Funnily, it is causing my other male cat to react the same way to him so when the beige cat runs out, my other tabby is not far behind. Weirdly, my little girl cat seems to like him.
I also suddenly have a horrible suspicion that something might be off with this guy, alcohol or drug problems and I know dogs can pick up on this but I wonder if there is any evidence that cats might be able to do the same.
Any ideas on why my cat might be behaving like this and any ideas on how to modify this behaviour are welcome. I am worried that it is going to stress my cat out if I don't do anything to fix the situation. If push comes to shove and its six months down the road and my cat has not adjusted, then I will ask him to move out, but seems right to first see if there is an issue.
I also suddenly have a horrible suspicion that something might be off with this guy, alcohol or drug problems and I know dogs can pick up on this but I wonder if there is any evidence that cats might be able to do the same.
Any ideas on why my cat might be behaving like this and any ideas on how to modify this behaviour are welcome. I am worried that it is going to stress my cat out if I don't do anything to fix the situation. If push comes to shove and its six months down the road and my cat has not adjusted, then I will ask him to move out, but seems right to first see if there is an issue.