So you don't even think women should go out for an afternoon with their girlfriends? Out to see a movie or have lunch, or maybe go out for a drink? I have to disagree, I think maintaining friends and interests outside a person's relationship is really important. I'd feel really stifled if I never was able to just go out on my own, see my friends, ect. I love my boyfriend and I love being with him, but I love going to see my friends, too - they mean a lot to me. They've been there for me through thick and thin, and I could never abandon them or stop going out with them because I got a boyfriend or a husband.Originally Posted by crittermom
I am one of those that think, THAT is wrong.To me, when you get married, you forgo all your single ways.When you want to go out, then you go as a couple or NOT at all.
Shawn and I go every where together.....well except for shopping.When we want to see a movie, it's together.Lunch is the same.
To me, going out on your own is only asking for trouble.To many what ifs and could bes to me.
Monica, I hope your hubby was only joking though
As for going out on your own being asking for trouble - I disagree. If you love your spouse and are happy, nothing untoward is going to happen, no matter who hits on you or what he looks like. Brad Pitt could ask me back to his place, and I'd politely decline. I'm happy with my boyfriend
He goes out with his friends as well. I trust him, so it's not a problem.
To each their own, of course.. just saying how I see it.