My husband is overbearing and controling and so far (5 years) he has never hit me but he is very controling and mean and screams and yells all the time. That being said: You all may remember this past winter he brought in that ferral cat trapped in a cage. I told him to bring the cage to the SPCA, but NO he lets the darn thing out and my life has been a nightmare since. For one she brought in an odd strain of flea I am alergic to and I am eaten up. then she has these 4 kittens. They are 3 months old now and still here!!! This sucks! I have fallen in love with them and it is gonna rip my heart out if/when they leave. But they HAVE to leave and now!! He has people at work who want them but he just wont let them go.
Now there is a cold going around and 3 of the 4 are coughing, sneezing and weezing! And the little black one has blood in her eye and it looks horrible also they all are covered in fleas. there is NO way I can in good conceince give them away. I have made friends with the rescue/adoption lady at the SPCA and she said she will come pick them up. He refuses!
I want to do it behind his back while he is at work but I am soo afraid of his wrath so I just cant do it.
Well I just called him at work and told him they have to go and I am gonna call the lady, he said no, I have 3 of them promissed. I told him he has 1 week to get them out of here and then I am going to take over. He was pissed but I have to take some action on my own, so at least I am not going behind his back, I gave him a warning. I hope he takes that warning seriously.
Now there is a cold going around and 3 of the 4 are coughing, sneezing and weezing! And the little black one has blood in her eye and it looks horrible also they all are covered in fleas. there is NO way I can in good conceince give them away. I have made friends with the rescue/adoption lady at the SPCA and she said she will come pick them up. He refuses!
I want to do it behind his back while he is at work but I am soo afraid of his wrath so I just cant do it.
Well I just called him at work and told him they have to go and I am gonna call the lady, he said no, I have 3 of them promissed. I told him he has 1 week to get them out of here and then I am going to take over. He was pissed but I have to take some action on my own, so at least I am not going behind his back, I gave him a warning. I hope he takes that warning seriously.