I am going to help my aunt tomorrow to clean out all his stuff. I am not looking forward to it.
My mum and brother are flying back from Cape Town as soon as we know when the funeral is.
I suppose it will sink in some time soon - it isn't the tearing grief I felt when my gran or Munchie died. I even felt more for my cat. I feel insane about that.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending hugs to you and headbumps from the kitties.
I can relate to what you're feeling as far as numbness, I was the same way when my father died. What you're feeling is normal, the grief will come in its own time.
. I know how you feel about the numbness, hang in there it does get a little better with time. I am saying a prayer for your Grandfather, you and your family.
I'm so sorry you've lost your Grandad. The numb thing is strange - I felt that when I lost my Dad, and although I was deeply sad inside because we were very close, I never howled and bawled my eyes out but had these waves of sadness and resignation come over me for a long time. Still get it sometimes, and it's coming up for 6 years since we lost him now.
Sending lots of love and healing wishes to you and your family.