This has been really upsetting me recently. We have to cats, Herbie our oldie and Trixi my almost-a-cat mischeif of 11 months and 10 days.
Anyway, after we got back from holiday in the last weeks of August, our neighbour Alistair came round and said that Trixi has been spending time round his house whilst we'd been away. We had had someone to come in and feed the cats but i thought ti was nice that she had a little person she could go to when she was feeling lonely.
Anyway, as the weeks have passed Trixi has been round there for longer and longer. I just went round to collect her as i havn't seen her for 5 days. When she first started disappearing for a long time i got worried that she was lost or had been run over, but i soon realised she was just round his. He told me that he isn't feeding her although i can tell he clearly is. Sometimes i go round there and have a peer through the cat flap to see if i can see her anywhere in there. I can clearly see a bowl with some cat food and some milk or water. I know he doesn't have a cat of his own so i can tell he's lieing when he says he's not feeding her.
I don't want to tell him to his face that i don't want Trixi to come round anymore because i feel bad. I said to him "oh, if shes ever annoyingy ou or anything just lock the cat flap or something" and he sais to me that he has tried that before but "she got in" i'm sorry but that is completley stupid. He has the same catflap as us. It has a little slidy lock thingy and there is absolutley NO WAY she can get though that. It annoys me so much how he's lying.
So what should i do? I went round to get her just now and i've locked the cat flap so she can't get out. She'll be alright for a while but i'll have to let her out sometime to go to the loo. My mum suggested locking her in for about 2 weeks with a litter tray and only letting her out supervised so she might forget about going round there so much, ro maybe just remember that this is her home.
Its not like were out lots. I get home from school at 4 and stay in on everyday apart from Mondays. I'm always in sometime at the weekend. The only time someone is out of the house generally is between 10 and 4. Of which all that time shes out playing in peoples gardens anyway.
Another thing that bugs me is that he often goes away on work trips for 2 or 3 days, and she will STAY IN HIS HOUSE. This means i've got no way of getting her out unless she comes out the cat flap.
So does anyone have any advice for me? I get so upset. Shes mine and i hardly see her.
Anyway, after we got back from holiday in the last weeks of August, our neighbour Alistair came round and said that Trixi has been spending time round his house whilst we'd been away. We had had someone to come in and feed the cats but i thought ti was nice that she had a little person she could go to when she was feeling lonely.
Anyway, as the weeks have passed Trixi has been round there for longer and longer. I just went round to collect her as i havn't seen her for 5 days. When she first started disappearing for a long time i got worried that she was lost or had been run over, but i soon realised she was just round his. He told me that he isn't feeding her although i can tell he clearly is. Sometimes i go round there and have a peer through the cat flap to see if i can see her anywhere in there. I can clearly see a bowl with some cat food and some milk or water. I know he doesn't have a cat of his own so i can tell he's lieing when he says he's not feeding her.
I don't want to tell him to his face that i don't want Trixi to come round anymore because i feel bad. I said to him "oh, if shes ever annoyingy ou or anything just lock the cat flap or something" and he sais to me that he has tried that before but "she got in" i'm sorry but that is completley stupid. He has the same catflap as us. It has a little slidy lock thingy and there is absolutley NO WAY she can get though that. It annoys me so much how he's lying.
So what should i do? I went round to get her just now and i've locked the cat flap so she can't get out. She'll be alright for a while but i'll have to let her out sometime to go to the loo. My mum suggested locking her in for about 2 weeks with a litter tray and only letting her out supervised so she might forget about going round there so much, ro maybe just remember that this is her home.
Its not like were out lots. I get home from school at 4 and stay in on everyday apart from Mondays. I'm always in sometime at the weekend. The only time someone is out of the house generally is between 10 and 4. Of which all that time shes out playing in peoples gardens anyway.
Another thing that bugs me is that he often goes away on work trips for 2 or 3 days, and she will STAY IN HIS HOUSE. This means i've got no way of getting her out unless she comes out the cat flap.
So does anyone have any advice for me? I get so upset. Shes mine and i hardly see her.