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Hello! I suppose I should introduce myself and my kitty before I jump in but I'm pretty desperate...
So I adopted Nigella this past February from a no-kill shelter. She had previously been abused and thrown out of the house as a kitten and became what the shelter called 'semi-feral' (though I'm not sure that's the right phrasing). She was badly hurt and found by a shelter volunteer and was thought to be unadoptable for a really long time (she was at the shelter for over a year before they decided she was nice enough around humans to be put up for adoption). She's almost 3, for reference. She's still EXTREMELY skittish, but after a month or two of hiding out in the bathtub, she became really attached to me and was very loving. She disliked my grandfather a lot (who lives with me) but we accepted that maybe she was just a one-person cat.
Anyways, long winded introduction. I left last month for a 1 month vacation to visit my boyfriend. My grandfather took care of her at that time and gave her all the attention I did, so by all accounts, she was a happy camper. I came back on Monday and knew she'd be terrified out of her mind to have a new person in the home (she loves my room so I was really 'invading' her space). But I'm worried. She comes out at night when I'm sleeping and eats and goes to the bathroom. She pooped outside the litterbox once, but I'm not sure if it was just because it was stuck to her butt because she continued going to the litterbox normally afterwards. She doesn't come out from under the bed during the day. I've left treats and tried to sit on the floor and talk quietly each day, but all I get are continuous hisses so I leave. I realise she's stressed but I'm wondering how far I should let this go? I called the vet and they said to give it another week or two. But I'm overanxious and want to know if there's anything I can do in the meantime to help her out. Does anyone have any experience with this?
So I adopted Nigella this past February from a no-kill shelter. She had previously been abused and thrown out of the house as a kitten and became what the shelter called 'semi-feral' (though I'm not sure that's the right phrasing). She was badly hurt and found by a shelter volunteer and was thought to be unadoptable for a really long time (she was at the shelter for over a year before they decided she was nice enough around humans to be put up for adoption). She's almost 3, for reference. She's still EXTREMELY skittish, but after a month or two of hiding out in the bathtub, she became really attached to me and was very loving. She disliked my grandfather a lot (who lives with me) but we accepted that maybe she was just a one-person cat.
Anyways, long winded introduction. I left last month for a 1 month vacation to visit my boyfriend. My grandfather took care of her at that time and gave her all the attention I did, so by all accounts, she was a happy camper. I came back on Monday and knew she'd be terrified out of her mind to have a new person in the home (she loves my room so I was really 'invading' her space). But I'm worried. She comes out at night when I'm sleeping and eats and goes to the bathroom. She pooped outside the litterbox once, but I'm not sure if it was just because it was stuck to her butt because she continued going to the litterbox normally afterwards. She doesn't come out from under the bed during the day. I've left treats and tried to sit on the floor and talk quietly each day, but all I get are continuous hisses so I leave. I realise she's stressed but I'm wondering how far I should let this go? I called the vet and they said to give it another week or two. But I'm overanxious and want to know if there's anything I can do in the meantime to help her out. Does anyone have any experience with this?