I have had Kiki (a tom), since he was 6 months old. I lived with my, then, partner James but split 2 years ago this coming November. They both adored each other (despite James disliking the idea of having a cat). In March 2015, I moved into a house share with 6 others because I was lonely and needed my own company and I came to dislike the memories of the place we once shared.
It also allowed Kiki to venture outside as I lived on a main/busy road so I couldn't let him out.
Anyway, it seems that Kiki much prefers (human), male company to me. He has the range of a big house and sleeps where he likes but it's bugging me recently that he doesn't want to stay in my room from time to time/at night, preferring to sleep in my housemate's room at night. It feels like I barely see him apart from when I feed him. I play with him daily but he doesn't even seem interested in his toys.
I am also going to move to another city soon and am worried what impact this may have.
I am very sad so if anyone has any information, advice or even just a little understanding, I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you,
Lady H
It also allowed Kiki to venture outside as I lived on a main/busy road so I couldn't let him out.
Anyway, it seems that Kiki much prefers (human), male company to me. He has the range of a big house and sleeps where he likes but it's bugging me recently that he doesn't want to stay in my room from time to time/at night, preferring to sleep in my housemate's room at night. It feels like I barely see him apart from when I feed him. I play with him daily but he doesn't even seem interested in his toys.
I am also going to move to another city soon and am worried what impact this may have.
I am very sad so if anyone has any information, advice or even just a little understanding, I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you,
Lady H