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I have 3 kitties, an 11-year old female, 6-year old male and terrible 2 year old male. I found him when he was 6-ish months old. It's clear he was weened too early because he suckles. I have this feeling that maybe he wasn't socialized as a youngster either.
So, here's the problem: Sometimes he gets along great with the other cats. Sleeps with them, mutual grooms, plays friendly. Other times, he bullies them, especially the older female. Sometimes it even happens with friendly play - he doesn't know the boundary. They go from a little friendly wrestling, to his trying to literally sit on their face, then jumping on and biting. He's relentless. Sometimes it even sparks a fight between the other 2 cats and they've always been lovers. This has only started in the past few months (since about the time he hit 2). He happens to be the smallest of the 3 also.
This is very stressful for me and, at least, the older cat. I have tried nearly everything recommended online - distracting him, separating him, trying to tire him out, rewarding him with treats for good play, lots of distracting interactive toys, Feliway plug-ins and spray. Nothing works. I was looking at the Jackson Galaxy Spirit Essences - there's a kit for bullies. It's $60 on Amazon - quite a risk for something that may not work (anyone with experience?). I hate leaving home because of it and we have an upcoming trip. I haven't taken him to the vet yet - I don't think there's a health problem...there's a behavior problem. I worry the vet will be no help and I will still be charged $50 for the visit.
Any thoughts or suggestions? I've never seen a cat act this badly. He's really lucky he's in my home. I think most people would give up on him, but I won't.
So, here's the problem: Sometimes he gets along great with the other cats. Sleeps with them, mutual grooms, plays friendly. Other times, he bullies them, especially the older female. Sometimes it even happens with friendly play - he doesn't know the boundary. They go from a little friendly wrestling, to his trying to literally sit on their face, then jumping on and biting. He's relentless. Sometimes it even sparks a fight between the other 2 cats and they've always been lovers. This has only started in the past few months (since about the time he hit 2). He happens to be the smallest of the 3 also.
This is very stressful for me and, at least, the older cat. I have tried nearly everything recommended online - distracting him, separating him, trying to tire him out, rewarding him with treats for good play, lots of distracting interactive toys, Feliway plug-ins and spray. Nothing works. I was looking at the Jackson Galaxy Spirit Essences - there's a kit for bullies. It's $60 on Amazon - quite a risk for something that may not work (anyone with experience?). I hate leaving home because of it and we have an upcoming trip. I haven't taken him to the vet yet - I don't think there's a health problem...there's a behavior problem. I worry the vet will be no help and I will still be charged $50 for the visit.
Any thoughts or suggestions? I've never seen a cat act this badly. He's really lucky he's in my home. I think most people would give up on him, but I won't.