oh no! I am so sorry!
I'm so glad you are going to give it another try.Originally Posted by dixichik
we have decided not to spay her. we had a meeting with our new vet that came highly recommended by the animal behavor specialist. On that Sunday when she attacked we were freaked out by it everything was closed and the spca was the only thing that came to my husbands mind. I had a friend cal yesterday and told us to swab Hanna's mouth and when Princess gets home rub the swab on her nose and she will get used to her scent. this happened to her also and the cat never left her childs side. Also Sigfree (?) and Roy did the same thing after the tiger attack. So we are going to give that a try and continue with the soft claws. We are going to get her today
I have had several cats (7) declawed over the years before knowing much about the procedure. I have NEVEr out of all my cats had one that became a biter, withdrawln, or had health problems. This is highly over exagerated by some.I may be harsh here with you but I'm
completely opposed to declawing.
I think this
is one topic that people need education on.
Do NOT declaw her JUST so you can KEEP her!!
Declawing cats leads
almost without fail somewhere along the line
to pooping outside box issues. Maybe next year
or 2 years or 10... but somewhere down the line...
Many of the cats at shelters wind up there
because of this problem, that is CAUSED by
declawing. Ask around... all the rescue groups will
tell you this. Then they get put down...
A cat that cannot claw - can BITE!
(Believe me, I've been clawed and bitten
many times... ) Biting is worse than clawing...
Please, please talk to multiple vets, rescue
groups. etc
they will ALL tell you the same thing.
Once it begins, (peeing and pooping problems associated
with declawing) you will wind up putting the cat to sleep
or giving to the shelter because no one wants a cat that goes out
of the box!!
Including you and hubby--
no matter how much you profess you love her.
I know you want to keep her, and I *don't* mean to
be harsh, but please don't be shelfish! You HAVE
a potential home lined up. You have options to the
declawing.
You don't want
her to pee and poop outside the box and have trouble
all her life with this.
And think of the pain Princess will suffer ALL HER LIFE because
of declawing! It is as if you were having your own knuckles cut off!!
Would YOU do that to YOU? Or to your child? OR someone you "love"?
If you have a heart, let her go to a better home where
she can be happy AS IS!
No children to mess with her, no declawing -
just lots of love and the ability to be a whole cat - not
mutilated.
If you need another cat for your child or for your
self to fill the void left behind - you can *always*
give a home to one of the many many cats awaiting
home in shelter.
Shelters and rescue groups can help you find a
purrrfect match for you.
Although it hurts you...the cat would be happier,
and YOU would be teaching your child a great lesson
about responsiblity and making hard decisons.
Just my two cents.