Im sick and tired of her mood swings now, she is now speaking to everyone in the house but not me for what reason i do not know which has really p'd me off because ive done nothing (this time at least)
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she is an alcoholic i guess you could say in recovery now as she hasnt drank for about a month and a half, she went to the doctors about three months ago because she was having pains inside of her, he then sent her for an ultrasound on her liver and her spleen.....she had the scan wouldnt have the blood tests to go with it because she wouldnt stay off the drink, then she got really poorly so stopped drinking then decided to have her bloods done, because she was so bloated (fluid build up) she decided to go to the doctors and get the results of her ultra sound, she went last monday to be told she has fatty liver diesease and they might have caught it in time so that damage may be repairable and that she has something growing inside of her gall bladder so it needs removing. On saturday she was in so much pain so my dad took her to hospital it was because of this fluid build up.....
for the best bit i had to move back home 7 months ago because myself and my partner got into financial trouble.....she doesnt want me living here at all she makes it perfectly clear that she doesnt, i pay her board to live here, i have no say in what happens in the house, im not allowed any sort of life and if i do this is what happens she spends days ignoring me and will not speak, if she does she snaps answers at me like i shouldnt even be talking to her. I told her i was going out on sunday through last week, i told her on saturday when she got back from hospital that i wouldnt go id stay home make sure she was ok.....she told me no go out have fun theres nothing you can really do......so i went out, she had seemed upbeat on the saturday even with everything that had happened i guess thats what my mistake was - actually believeing her, by the time i got back yesterday afternoon she was being standoffish with me didnt want to hear about my day then come the night time she just wouldnt speak to me but would speak to others in the house and this morning has been a nightmare.
im sick of tredding on eggshells everyday to see if she is speaking to me or not, she knows exactly how i feel because she went through the same with her mother and always used to say to me i dont want us to have a relationship like that, so i threw it in her face the last argument we had, how she was exactly the same as her mother which she didnt like but my dad backed me up and said it was true. Now i understand shes having a hard time at the moment but this has been going on for years, only time we were "friends" was when i lived with Blaine. She cant even be nice when we have good news - like me getting more hours at work and blaine getting a new job because she blames Blaine for mine and his money trouble, so i play piggy in the middle listening to her having digs about blaine and blaine just completly baffelled to what her problem is
if you made it this far thanks for reading
background
she is an alcoholic i guess you could say in recovery now as she hasnt drank for about a month and a half, she went to the doctors about three months ago because she was having pains inside of her, he then sent her for an ultrasound on her liver and her spleen.....she had the scan wouldnt have the blood tests to go with it because she wouldnt stay off the drink, then she got really poorly so stopped drinking then decided to have her bloods done, because she was so bloated (fluid build up) she decided to go to the doctors and get the results of her ultra sound, she went last monday to be told she has fatty liver diesease and they might have caught it in time so that damage may be repairable and that she has something growing inside of her gall bladder so it needs removing. On saturday she was in so much pain so my dad took her to hospital it was because of this fluid build up.....
for the best bit i had to move back home 7 months ago because myself and my partner got into financial trouble.....she doesnt want me living here at all she makes it perfectly clear that she doesnt, i pay her board to live here, i have no say in what happens in the house, im not allowed any sort of life and if i do this is what happens she spends days ignoring me and will not speak, if she does she snaps answers at me like i shouldnt even be talking to her. I told her i was going out on sunday through last week, i told her on saturday when she got back from hospital that i wouldnt go id stay home make sure she was ok.....she told me no go out have fun theres nothing you can really do......so i went out, she had seemed upbeat on the saturday even with everything that had happened i guess thats what my mistake was - actually believeing her, by the time i got back yesterday afternoon she was being standoffish with me didnt want to hear about my day then come the night time she just wouldnt speak to me but would speak to others in the house and this morning has been a nightmare.
im sick of tredding on eggshells everyday to see if she is speaking to me or not, she knows exactly how i feel because she went through the same with her mother and always used to say to me i dont want us to have a relationship like that, so i threw it in her face the last argument we had, how she was exactly the same as her mother which she didnt like but my dad backed me up and said it was true. Now i understand shes having a hard time at the moment but this has been going on for years, only time we were "friends" was when i lived with Blaine. She cant even be nice when we have good news - like me getting more hours at work and blaine getting a new job because she blames Blaine for mine and his money trouble, so i play piggy in the middle listening to her having digs about blaine and blaine just completly baffelled to what her problem is
if you made it this far thanks for reading