I adopted Cocoa 6 years ago. He is a prissy Burmese (sp). Then 5 months later I adopted Sissy, she was a white angora that had been thrown from a car. It was love at first sight for all of us! Sissy and Cocoa bonded so fast no hissing or spitting. And she became my bestfriend, she slept with her arms on my face and her nose on my nose lol. Well we lost Sissy just over a year ago, the tears are still streamin down my face. Anyway the reason for my story is Coca since Sissy been gone he will not have anything to do with me or my husband. If he is in a room and one of us walks in he will leave. He wont let us brush him, touch him, hold him or pet him. His tail which used to swish around with attitude now is always down. I've had him to the vet nothing wrong him. The vet said maybe getting another cat would help. so after much searching at the animal shelter we adopted a 7 month old female. He ignores her too. when we brought her home and they met she was hissing and he just walked out of the room. Its been 6 months since we brought her into our house and everything is still the same. The only time he is friendly is when we have company, then he comes out and lets our company pet and rub him...but not us.. Is he holding a grudge, does he think we hurt Sissy?