I think about this sometimes and maybe I'm the only one, or not.
Did you ever worry that if you saw your cat at the Rainbow Bridge or where ever they may go, that they would be angry with you? I've forced food down so many of my friends who no longer wanted to live, subjected them to nasty tasting meds, chemo...you name it. I always wanted to give them a chance, until in my heart I knew there was no hope. I always wanted to believe they knew my intentions were good. There were times those nasty meds gave them extra months or years. But there were times that they didn't.
Sometimes when I'm in the yard, simply enjoying the way being outside feels, I question whether they resented me for keeping them inside. I believe in my heart I did it in their best interest, but it still bothers me. I do my best to make their lives comfortable, yet sometimes I wonder if I'm being controlling for my own peace of mind.
Anyway, I'm just curious if you've ever had these thoughts. And if I've posted this in the wrong forum, please move it for me.
Did you ever worry that if you saw your cat at the Rainbow Bridge or where ever they may go, that they would be angry with you? I've forced food down so many of my friends who no longer wanted to live, subjected them to nasty tasting meds, chemo...you name it. I always wanted to give them a chance, until in my heart I knew there was no hope. I always wanted to believe they knew my intentions were good. There were times those nasty meds gave them extra months or years. But there were times that they didn't.
Sometimes when I'm in the yard, simply enjoying the way being outside feels, I question whether they resented me for keeping them inside. I believe in my heart I did it in their best interest, but it still bothers me. I do my best to make their lives comfortable, yet sometimes I wonder if I'm being controlling for my own peace of mind.
Anyway, I'm just curious if you've ever had these thoughts. And if I've posted this in the wrong forum, please move it for me.