Has anyone that feeds feral cats always fed at the same time every single day?
I usually never do anything or go anywhere if it falls during the time I normally feed the cats. I never go out to eat with family or go to their houses if I know I can't be back in time to feed at the normal feeding time. I just feel so guilty knowing they are waiting on my front porch for me to feed them. I have tried going out to dinner with family but then I just get upset and worry about the time and don't enjoy myself.
My Mom and stepdad are celebrating their 40th Anniversary and I have been invited to go out to dinner with them and my sister. I want to go but I know I will make myself miserable and everyone else worrying about feeding the cats on time.
I guess I'm asking if the cats will be fine eating later then usual. I know 5 of them will be here waiting but one of my feral cats does not live on my porch with the others and I'm afraid he will get tired of waiting and not get to eat this evening.
I'm torn between going tonight with my family or staying home to feed the cats. People think I'm crazy because I won't go do anything if I can't be here to feed on time, maybe I am. I hardly ever leave the house and my anxiety over feeding the cats keeps me from doing anything with anyone. I always back out at the last minute so I can be here to feed them.
I usually never do anything or go anywhere if it falls during the time I normally feed the cats. I never go out to eat with family or go to their houses if I know I can't be back in time to feed at the normal feeding time. I just feel so guilty knowing they are waiting on my front porch for me to feed them. I have tried going out to dinner with family but then I just get upset and worry about the time and don't enjoy myself.
My Mom and stepdad are celebrating their 40th Anniversary and I have been invited to go out to dinner with them and my sister. I want to go but I know I will make myself miserable and everyone else worrying about feeding the cats on time.
I guess I'm asking if the cats will be fine eating later then usual. I know 5 of them will be here waiting but one of my feral cats does not live on my porch with the others and I'm afraid he will get tired of waiting and not get to eat this evening.
I'm torn between going tonight with my family or staying home to feed the cats. People think I'm crazy because I won't go do anything if I can't be here to feed on time, maybe I am. I hardly ever leave the house and my anxiety over feeding the cats keeps me from doing anything with anyone. I always back out at the last minute so I can be here to feed them.