I so understand that feeling Ari. I am the same with Cedar - just want to hold him to reassure them that they are safe and loved but of course he wants out of my arms.Originally Posted by pinkdaisy226
lately, every time I look at him I want to just hold him real tight and tell him everything's ok. Of course, when I DO do that, he freaks out and tries to get away.
I do hope the routine will help Max, it sounds like its a possiblity that it could.
I still see progress with Cedar - as others have mentioned, sometimes it just takes time and Max may have alot to deal with being 6 when he came to you, who knows what happened to him in those 6 years.
I feel for you my friend, and if I find some answers for Cedar I will most certainly let you know what is working and what isnt