Hi..I spent a little time looking at the forums before I signed up and you all seem to k ow your stuff So here's my issue. My brother and sis in law took in a young female cat a couple of weeks ago. They asked me to take care of her while they are on vacation for 10 days. I know NOTHING about cats. She was a stray and they took her to the vet and got shots started before they left and have plans on spaying her when they return. She is very sweet and loveable. Yesterday she got out while I was leaving for work and I wasn't able to catch her so she was out for about 4 hours. She was hiding in the bushes when I got back and she came right to me and I took her in. She flopped on the floor and seemed very tired. She wouldn't let me touch her the rest if the night. Today when I got home she was outside again. She pushed through a window screen. Took me awhile to get her in this time. Same thing ..tired and doesn't want me to pet her. She also keeps licking her bottom. I am wondering if it is possible she has mated? Her bottom looks normal..not swollen or anything. Tommorrow she will be locked in the bathroom before I leave