Marshmallow has been sick for a couple of weeks and we've taken him to the vet twice. The first time, the vet kept referring to him as "she" when he was talking about him. I didn't want to be rude, but pointedly said "he" a couple of times during the conversation. When we took him back to the vet yesterday, the vet called him "she" again. Really, now! I can't figure out if it's because of his name or the way he looks. Marshmallow is a beautiful cat -his features resemble those of a Turkish Angora (though he's not one) - and he has lovely bi-colored eyes. Or maybe there's a mistake in the chart? I had a message on my answering machine today from the receptionist at the vet's office today. She was calling to check on Marshmallow and she asked "How (long pause) is it doing?"